Advocacy

They Come By Bus to West Oakland

A few weeks ago I had the wonderful opportunity to visit St. Vincent de Paul of Alameda County’s Women’s Center. It was a full circle experience for me, since HAMO started as a result of learningthat mothers in our own community were taking the bus across town to receive emergency diapers for their baby. It simply broke our hearts, and still does, to learn that something many of us take for granted … having enough diapers for our own baby … could be lacking in another mother’s life.

I arrived on a rainy Friday morning and met their Director of Development, Katharine Miller for the tour of their west Oakland facility, located off West Grand Avenue. I brought 4 cases of diapers, courtesy of our Amazon donors.

According to SVdP’s website “Alameda County is home to a disproportionate number of low-income households in the Bay Area:”

The downtown Oakland neighborhood that houses the SVdP Community Center and Free Dining Room is one of the most distressed in Northern California. Nearly a third of area residents subsist on incomes below the poverty threshold. Nearly half of single-mother households in the area live below the poverty line. Those who eat at the SVdP Dining Room have an average income of little more than $5,000 per year.

Katharine, Sonya, and Amanda of SVdP were kind enough to talk with me about diaper need in the community. Here’s an impromptu interview with Sonya and Amanda:


SVdP’s Women’s Center currently is able to give out 8 diapers per family, twice a month. Moms take the bus from all over Oakland, Berkeley, and even Richmond to SVdP in order to receive diapers, a few pairs of children’s clothing, and to do laundry in the center’s laundromat. Those familiar with Alameda county can probably guess how long it would take a single mom and her kids (not to mention with laundry) to take the bus down to west Oakland. Awhile.

I was inspired by the truly amazing work the staff  of SVdP and their cadre of dedicated volunteers carry out everyday. And yet, I was deeply saddened by the fact that so many women spend a disproportionate amount of time trying to acquire basic needs for their children.

It simply is an injustice.

I wish that I could have come with a truckload of diapers, ready to hand out a pack of 30 diapers to the homeless single mom who had arrived with her young child while I was there. She was about 6 months pregnant.

Inspired to act? You can help us continue our diaper program by making a monetary donation here, or if you prefer, ship diapers directly to us through our wishlist, or drop ‘em off in person. For those in California, you can participate in our state-wide diaper drive December 1-14th.

Photo courtesy of St. Vincent de Paul of Alameda County.

Dignity in a Bar of Soap #hamo

It’s the little things that often make a big difference in someone’s life. Diapers, yes – we talk about those a lot here. But what about other stuff? The next time you brush your teeth, wash your hands, or lather on your favorite shampoo – think about this:


Thank you to Alma of Homeless Prenatal Program for reminding us we can all contribute – even with something as small as hotel soaps and toothpaste.

You can donate your (unused) travel sized toiletries to any homeless center in your own area.

Photo credit via Creative Commons: Desi

Ban Soda From Food Stamp Program?

You may have heard about New York City’s Mayor Bloomberg recent proposal to ban the city’s residents from purchasing soda with food stamps.

A lively debate happened on the topic over at Change.org. Some proponents argued thatbanning soda purchases for poor food stamp recipients was a good thing. Other advocatesargued that it wasn’t a fight worth fighting for, but rather, that we should work towards encouraging, perhaps even implementing incentives for food stamp recipients to make better choices.

I think Mayor Bloomberg’s efforts would be well directed at improving food stamp recipient’s access to real food: be it inner city farmer’s market vendors accepting food stamps, or implementing incentives on bringing grocery stores to food deserts, which are innumerable across the American landscape.

If you want proof of this, drive through neighborhoods like east Oakland or the Bayview district in San Francisco where you’d be hard pressed to find affordable and healthy foods, not to mention diapers.

What do you think about this hot topic? Do you agree with Mayor Bloomberg with banning soda from the food stamp program?

Soda aisle photo credit via Creative Commons 2.0: Violentz

Open Our Eyes: A Book To Open Their Eyes

When mentally composing my holiday gift shopping list, I rarely think of getting social change tools for people I love.  That’s sort of silly, and a wasted opportunity, considering that the people I love share with me the value of helping our fellow community members.  Also, we have the ability here, right on this site, to purchase gift donations for loved ones.  We promote this idea heavily around Mother’s Day – make a donation, get a lovely gift card for a mom you love.

So, when I reached the end of Open Our Eyes: Seeing the Invisible People of Homelessness, a collection of essays and stories about the way activist Mark Horvath is working for change, I was startled by the idea that popped into my head:  “I should get everybody this book for Christmas.”  It surprised me because aside from the hopeful fact that every contributor to this book is working in some way to alleviate the plight of America’s homeless, the feeling I got from reading it was a dull ache in the pit of my stomach.  Homeless is real, it sucks, and it has a human face.  What we’re doing to help isn’t enough.  And what a heartwarming gift to give your loved ones!

In “Open Our Eyes,” short profiles of some of the homeless people that Mark Horvath has featured on his interview site InvisiblePeople.tv appear among essays contributed by activists and social media professionals who have encountered him along his way.  The reader begins to visualize both Horvath’s work out in homeless communities and his effects on the rest of the world.  They ripple outward.  I myself, through HAMO co-founder Lisa Truong (who contributed an essay), have worked with Mark and witnessed his larger-than-life personality. He is inspiring and overwhelming, but as he says in his own contribution to the book, the story is not about him.  It’s about the millions of homeless men, women, and children who need places to live.

“Open Our Eyes” is a quick read at 107 pages and an inexpensive gift at $9.99 on Amazon.  All proceeds will support Horvath’s work with InvisiblePeople.tv.  Far from a heartwarming gift, this book paints a very real picture of homelessness and what is being done about it, and what should be done about it.  Maybe it will help your family members and friends understand why you are passionate about helping others.  Maybe it will open their eyes.

We Made Babble.Com!

We’re so grateful to Babble.com for including us in their recent list of 50 Best Charities for Babies and Small Children!

We’re over the moon to be included in this list of amazing organizations – both small grassroots operations and non profit big guns. Just a few of the organizations include: Homeless Prenatal Program (our friends & partner agency!), Room to GrowMarch of DimesCradles to CrayonsEarly Head Start, and Mother’s Milk Bank. Check out the article and get inspired to act!

There are so many organization doing amazing work. Tell us about a non profit focused on babies and small children you love to support!

Photo credit via Creative Commons 2.0: peasap

Last Day of the Month, Let’s Going Shopping for Diapers

Quickly, so in case you missed this NPR story about midnight shopping at Walmart. There’s been such a spike in middle of the night, last day of the month sales, that Walmart makes sure there are enough large packs of diapers and infant formula stocked on the shelves during this time of the month.

Food for thought.

Photo credit via Creative Commons 2.0: MarkJMS

You Can Help Stop the Shackling of Pregnant Inmates

Did you know that since 2005, it is illegal in California to shackle pregnant inmates while they are being transported to the hospital while in labor?

But did you know that in other instances, shackling of pregnant inmates is still legal?

According to The Guardian, ten U.S. states currently have shackling laws on the books (California, Colorado, Illinois, New Mexico, New York, Texas, Vermont, Washington, West Virginia and Pennsylvania).

California Legislation

In 2005, CA legislation was enacted with AB 478 (Lieber). As Salon.com previously wrote, this legislation states that no prisoner:

“shall not be shackled by the wrists, ankles, or both during labor, including during transport to the hospital, during delivery, and while in recovery after giving birth.”

Although the law has been in effect for some time, recently it has become evident that not all correctional officers are abiding by it in the jails and prisons across the state.

According to California NOW, our Golden State currently has the distinction of having the largest female inmate population of any state.

AB 1900 (Skinner)

New legislation is currently being considered to amend the 2005 law, enter AB 1900 (Skinner). If passed by the California legislature, the bill will prohibit shackling of pregnant women in county jails, state prisons and juvenile facilities at any time unless the woman presents a danger to herself or others.

You can peruse the documents related to this bill here.

Per Karen Shain, Policy Director at Legal Services for Prisoners with Children, a legal advocacy group based in San Francisco:

The bill comes out of the personal experience of a young mother who was incarcerated at Contra Costa County Jail during the bulk of her pregnancy.  She was shackled every time she went to court–oftentimes with a belly shackle and attached to a male prisoner.  She was also shackled at the hospital where she was admitted with pre-eclampsia–she was shackled to the bed, having to call a guard every time she needed to go to the bathroom.  Then she was attached to a large chain that would give her enough distance to be able to use a commode, but not enough to actually use the bathroom in her room!  While it is illegal for pregnant women to be shackled when going to the hospital when in labor, all other shackling of pregnant women is currently legal in California.

The bill will require that Corrections Standards Authority (CSA) set uniform standards across the State of California for how incarcerated pregnant women may be restrained.

As of August 12, 2010 the bill has passed the house and made it’s way to the senate, having been amended and a third reading has been ordered.

The HAMO Connection

Our partner agency Family, Maternal and Child Health Programs of Contra Costa county has a program, Lift Every Voice, that has been an integral part of raising awareness of this issue and advocating for this piece of legislation.

We here at HAMO believe that every baby matters and that every mother, regardless of her current status, deserves access to appropriate prenatal and postpartum care. This is a human rights issue, not only for the expectant mother, but also for the child she is carrying.

How You Can Help

1) Send a letter of support for AB 1900 to Nancy Skinner’s office in Sacramento, as well as a copy to your CA State Senator, (updated 8/18/10) and Governor Schwarzenegger.

Updated 8/18/10: The ACLU of Northern California has a handy tool for you to contact Governor Schwarzenegger. Find it by clicking here.

2) Spread the word to your network. Blog, Tweet, and Facebook it. Talk about it with your friends.

Any reporters reading this? If you email me I would be happy to put you in touch with our sources: lisa at helpamotherout dotorg.

We’d love to hear your thoughts on this issue. Had you heard about shackling pregnant women inmates previously? If you reside outside California, do you know your state’s policy on addressing this practice?

Image from: http://blogs.pitch.com/plog/2007/08/lately_western_missouri_seems.php

No Butt Left Behind?

This is a repost of my guest post for Poverty Insights earlier this week. I’m thrilled to be at the BlogHer conference today soaking up the information and bloggy energy. Of course, I’m also there to talk about diapers. Are you there too? Please stop by the Huggies Every Little Bottom booth (#2713) in the Expo Hall and say hi! Would love to meet you!

Any parent will tell you it is a terrible inconvenience to run out to the drugstore late at night because you ran out of diapers. But this occasional inconvenience is nothing compared to the crisis unfolding across the nation for families who are unable to provide their children with an adequate supply of diapers.

The Social Safety Net Does Not Include Diapers

For qualifying households, safety net programs such as the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) and the Women, Infants, and Children program (WIC) help supplement food, including infant formula. Unfortunately, no state or federal safety net program addresses the basic need of diapers.

It can take an average of $1,100 a year to adequately diaper a baby. And while cloth diapers are an option for more affluent households that are capable of maintaining them– the truth of the matter is that there exists a huge diaper divide with families living in crisis. Most families living in poverty lack access to affordable laundering facilities, as well as the start up costs associated with cloth diapering.

The Great Recession has amplified the numbers of families who are unable to meet this basic need. Even during boom times, families in need were forced to make impossible choices for their children; having to choose between items like food, medicine, diapers, or utility bills. “Diapers are a must-have. You can’t skip them like you can breakfast,” explained one struggling California mother.

Keeping Children Healthy, Helping Families Become Self Sufficient

Every baby deserves a clean diaper. Children left for extended periods of time in dirty diapers are at a higher risk for health problems including severe diaper rash, urinary tract infections, jaundice, and even staph infections.  Babies left in soiled diapers are more likely to cry from discomfort, which can increase caregiver stress and parental depression. In extreme cases, this type of stress on a family unit may lead to child neglect and abuse.

Lacking a steady access to diapers may also result in a family’s inability to participate in childcare programs, school, and even regular employment. We know that early childhood learning and development are critical to at-risk children.

The majority of early care and education programs, including free or subsidized programs like Early Head Start, require parents to provide disposable diapers prior to entering the program. If a caregiver is unable to meet this requirement, they may not be able to participate in regular employment or job training programs – essential factors in a family’s ability to be self sufficient.

The Long View: Changing Public Policy

The Diaper Bank, a non profit that centralizes fundraising for and distribution of free diapers to poor families in Connecticut distributes over 200,000 diapers per month to human service agencies. In recent years several grassroots organizations have sprouted up across the country in order to address this issue at local levels, primarily through charitable giving.

Recently Kimberley-Clark, a major diaper manufacturer, launched a campaign to address this issue from a commercial stand point. The number of families who have been helped by these collective efforts is astounding and truly awesome.

However inspiring these efforts are, they are a drop in the bucket in terms of addressing diaper needs at the national level. Charitable giving is, at best, a short term solution. In the long term it is essential for advocates of women and children, as well as advocates working to end hunger, poverty, and homelessness, to raise awareness and collectively advocate for the addition of diapers and other hygiene items in the safety net.

The addition of diapers must be codified into the fabric of social safety net programs. If we can ensure that a baby cries less, reduce caregiver stress, and enable families to achieve self sufficiency, we can change the world. Even with something as basic as diapers.

BlogHer

Bloggers take Manhattan?

A few HAMO peeps and friends will be there to join the masses who are descending onto Midtown Manhattan for the annual BlogHer conference.

Are you going?

We would love to meet you!

Please stop by the Huggies Every Little Bottom booth (#2713) in the Expo Hall and say hi!

I’ll be at the booth Friday 12-2pm then Saturday 2-4pm.

Kim will be at the booth both Friday and Saturday 12-2pm.

You can follow our adventures via Twitter:

Lisa: @helpamotherout

Kim: @kimtracyprince

In addition to Kim, Every Little Bottom Blog Ambassadors will be working the booth and talking diapers:

@jennyonthespot @rookieheather @SmartyPantsMama @Mommywords @rookiemoms @rookiewhitney @JessicAPISS

I’m grateful to  Huggies’ Every Little Bottom campaign for sponsoring HAMO’s presence at BlogHer.

Bottoms Covered #ELB

We had an incredible community event on Wednesday June 30th, which we put together to celebrate our Every Little Bottom donation from Huggies.

Pictured above is one of our youngest volunteers handing out diapers to Mel S. from WDDC, one of our FIRST partner agencies. Mel is the volunteer coordinator whom we met a little over a year ago. WDDC took 50 cases of diapers on Wednesday. I think they’ll be able to give out more than 6 diapers per mom now.

We had about 8 agencies come by to celebrate the momentous occasion with us. The energy was amazing and everyone pitched it to do their share. It was… very grassroots.

Some of our original agencies were able to come and bring back truck and van loads of diapers (all large sizes!) to stock their shelves for the hot summer months. Moms loaded up their station wagons full of diapers to bring to more agencies.


Photo credit: Wendy Copley (http://wendolonia.com/blog/)

Whitney rallied her crew to join in and keep the diapers moving. Please note the crutches (She broke her foot a few days prior and still drove over to lend a hand!).

Wendy and her son W. came over to help load diapers and document the day. We loaded up her car with diapers to bring back to an east bay agency. Mike and his daughter E. came by and got down to business with the pallet jack. It was so great to see our youngest volunteers really wanting to be there “to help the babies.”

My friend Del helped organize the event and Steve just totally brought it together and made a lot of behind the scenes happen.

We are totally, we mean Totally, indebted to our friends at City-Core Development for donating space to house the diaper donation. Are you looking for office space to lease? Check them out and tell them we sent you 

At the distribution I had a great conversation with a social worker from a newer partner agency on the  peninsula. We were talking about how so many of her clients are struggling with the basics. Parents are working long hours and it literally comes down to paying the utility bill, putting food on the table, or keeping an adequate supply of diapers. She talked about how when she has diapers, which is not too frequent, she can give them to her clients and then they can focus on more solving more pressing issues.

It felt completely awesome to load up the social worker’s car with diapers for her clients. My hope is that we can figure out a way to continue the momentum this windfall donation helped start.

Big Hugs to Huggies for literally covering a whole lot of little bottoms the Bay Area this week. We’re having an amazing time bringing your diapers to moms who really need them!

Check out Wendy’s photos from the day:http://www.flickr.com/photos/wendycopley/sets/72157624272058027/

1 in 3 Moms Struggle With the Diaper Need #ELB

Back in September, HAMO, together with nine other non profits,  received a unique invitation to sit down with Huggies and talk about the diaper issue. This summit, the first of it’s kind, was an amazing opportunity to meet people behind the organizations who have inspired us to continue the HAMO campaign.

The outcomes of this “Diaper Summit”  came to play a large role in the development of a new cause marketing campaign from Huggies called Every Little Bottom.

I know, I know. “Cause marketing” is the current overly used term across the social media landscape. People are *pooped* (ha ha) with the term and frankly I am too. What makes this campaign different, besides the fact you did not need to *vote* anyone in?

Not Your Average “Cute” Cause Marketing Campaign

Don’t let the cute name fool you. This is not your run of the mill marketing campaign. Following the Diaper Summit in September, the Huggies brand commissioned an independent research study focused on the diaper need in America. I stayed up late one night in New Haven and read through theEvery Little Bottom study. You can read the high level findings here [updated July 2, 2010 Download the study]. The study surveyed 1,500 mothers with babies 0-4 in diapers in the U.S. Essentially, the study quantitatively backs up what diaper advocates have been saying for quite some time:

1 in 3 American momstruggle to provide diapers for their baby. Not being able to afford diapers for your baby is not only a physical hardship, but it is emotional. For the baby AND the caregiver. Babies who need diapers suffer more physically and emotionally. They are more likely to show signs of irritation and discomfort, and cry and suffer more from diaper rash. If the caregiver is too distressed from not being able to provide diapers, it can affect their parenting skills, and ultimately, their ability to lead a self sufficient life.

Turning Rhetoric Into Action

What is Huggies doing? Last week they announced they are donating 2.5 million diapers to diaper bank partners in the U.S. and Canada. They have also committed to donating up to 22 million diapers later in the year. This is truly unprecedented.  I’m still trying to get my head around the numbers. Awesome, isn’t it?

From what I’ve seen Huggies is in it for the long haul. I think it is going to take this level of corporate commitment to take this “under the radar” cause to the next level. Partnerships and collaborations are being formed (they’re getting organizations like the Junior League and the Boys and Girls Club involved!). It is going to be wonderful to see it unfold and to see the level of awareness raised in every corner of the country.

Can we all stop donating diapers? NO! Because the need is truly dire and unmet (e.g., The Diaper Bank in New Haven distributes 200,000 diapers EACH MONTH over 3 counties – and it is still not enough!), it’s going to take a lot more than a corporate entity’s deep pockets. It is my hope this donation validates to you the rhetoric we (not to mention countless others) have been going on and on about.  Hopefully it will inspire more of you to remember to that a diaper drive is an easy way to give back to your community – just as a canned food drive, or a toy or book drive. Yes, it is going to take the generosity of corporations and philanthropic groups to move more than a few mountains. But the cause also needs the everyday generosity of individuals to make it sustainable.

Greater San Francisco News

This morning we will begin to distribute our Huggies ELB donation of 200,000 diapers to some very happy agencies. We have a few folks coming to help and will be sure to do a recap of this special day. In the meantime  you may (or may not!) be inclined to follow us on Twitter @helpamotherout for real time updates. And hey – SoCal friends, stay tuned for local news next week. We’re grateful to accept this in kind donation from Huggies on behalf of the families we serve.

Big congrats to mommy blogger in residence Kim Tracy Prince, as well as our friends Whitney and Heather of RookieMoms.com for signing on to become official ELB Blogger Ambassadors. These women, along with a great many others, have shown HAMO such kindness in our grassroots effort. We’re excited to see them play a role in this new venture.

The Diaper Divide

Disposable Diaper Brouhaha

Recently we’ve noticed a lot of interwebz discussion about disposable diapers vs. cloth diapers. Specifically, the question keeps coming up as to why needy families are not able to use cloth diapers. It is a valid question. In fact, it seems just about every time we get any kind of coverage this is one of the first questions to come up.

Previously we’ve addressed the topic briefly in our Diapers 101 post, but we thought it might be helpful to publish a perspective that explains the hurdles faced both by providers of free diapers and the recipient families.

Background

This past Earth Day an article came out in the Connecticut Post mentioning The Diaper Bank, founded by our friend and advisory board member Joanne Goldblum. The Diaper Bank distributes thousands (to the tune of 200,000 diapers  EACH month) to low income families across three CT counties.

Here is an excerpt from the article:

On the same day that folks marked Earth Day, a press release landed in one of my editors’ e-mail accounts. It was for a fundraiser for the Diaper Bank of Connecticut, which distributes thousands of diapers a year to low-income folks who can’t afford them for their babies. One has to wish, at a time of raised environmental awareness, why the Diaper Bank has yet to distribute cloth ones that can be laundered and recycled, too.

Well off or not, isn’t it everybody’s responsibility to pitch in and do their part to help the environment?

The Response

Dear Ms. Brown,

I just read your article, Helping to Save the Environment One Diaper at a Time with great interest.

I hope you will be pleased to find out that we do offer cloth diapers to clients. The problem is that no one will take them. Actually, we just sent bags of cloth diapers to Haiti because they had been sitting in our warehouse for so long. I wish you had called us for comment prior to publishing your article so we could have discussed this because we take environmental concerns very seriously.

The reason cloth diapers are unpopular among our clients is that families in poverty cannot afford and do not have access to washing and drying facilities. Hanging diapers out on the line in an urban setting is not realistic. Many landlords forbid it or provide no outdoor space or security to make it practicable. Furthermore, most childcare centers require parents to provide disposable diapers. Furthermore, most people living in poverty do not have affordable access to washing facilities.  Also, most laundramats do not allow people to wash diapers in thier machines. So while it is easy for wealthy families who control their own homes and childcare to use cloth, poor families are not so free to do as they might prefer.

In general we believe that the issue of disposable diapers and their environmental impact is a national topic that requires changing the conditions that make it impractical for many poor families to use cloth. This issue is not going to be resolved by not providing babies with what they need.  So even though cloth or recycled diapers may be better for the environment, we don’t think the place to make that argument is in response to poor children.

As for recycled diapers the cost, $23 a week, is considerably more than we pay for diapers since we buy diapers wholesale directly from a manufacturer. So switching to the recycled diapers would mean we serve far fewer poor children.

I will contact the company you spotlighted to see if they are interested in working with us to get the diapers they distribute to families in need- Wouldn’t it be wonderful if they were willing to work with us at a reduced cost to help poor families help the environment as well? I will tell you how that goes.

We at The Diaper Bank work hard to try to make Connecticut a better place for all children and families, I hope you will support us in that mission.

Please contact me if you would like to discuss this further, my cell phone number is 203-XXX-XXXX.

Joanne Samuel Goldblum

President and Founder , The Diaper Bank

Another Two Cents

This past year we have been very grateful to receive the support from many a cloth diapering mama, as well as from major cloth diaper manufacturer. We’ve even had our friends at Natural Resourcesshow some of our diaper recipients the ropes of cloth diapering basics. These mamas GET the cause and why cloth diapers may not be practical for everyone.

Because this cause is not about whether or not a mom chooses disposable or cloth diapers. Because to have this economic choice is a privilege to those of us who are able to meet the basic needs of our children and families.

What if you didn’t have the means to afford the start up costs of cloth diapering? What if you were living in transition – in a shelter, in your car, on a friend’s couch, doubled up with extended family? What if you could only afford to do your family’s laundry once a month? What if you only had 10 bucks in your pocket until the next payday? What if you finally got your child enrolled in Early Head Start and were required to provide a case of disposable diapers prior to starting the childcare program? The families we serve, through our partner agencies, come to them in crisis. They’re worried about their next meal and whether or not they can afford medicine, enough diapers, or to keep the lights on.

There is room enough in this cause for traditional disposables, eco-friendly disposables,  cloth diapers, AND diaper service companies. There’s room enough for projects like Laundry Love to advocate and address the logistical and financial challenges faced by many families. There’s also room enough to go beyond tangible needs and talk about the deeper issues – stuff like the real status of women; childhood poverty; public policy, urban and rural economic/food deserts.

So What Do You Think?

Is the good old “cloth vs. disposable” (as it relates to the issue of diaper needs) an argument we should continue? Do you know of a groundbreaking cloth diaper service that provides products and services free of charge to low income families? Have you heard of a charitable laundromat owner who helps out working families? We would love to hear your thoughts and relevant information you can share.

If you have NEW cloth diapers (CPSIA seal of approval) and you would like to donate to our cause, we will eventually find a needy bottom for them. Please know our greatest need is disposable diapers, though we currently do have a small agency that has distributed cloth diaper starter kits, thanks to our in kind donors.

If you would like to donate new or gently used cloth diapers, do check out the Cloth Diaper Foundation.

Image from: http://www.flickr.com/photos/pierrotsomepeople/3699129301/

Why Ashton Kutcher Should Have Gone To Yale Law School

A little more than a year ago HAMO started as a one-off drive to bring diapers to homeless families. We had no idea diapers were such a scarce commodity for families in need or that there were organizations such as diaper banks. The number one reason why we decided to let HAMO spread it’s wings was because we felt that it is critical to raise awareness of this issue and advocate for the inclusion of diapers in the safety net. Little did we know at the time that there was already a coalition forming to address this very goal.

On April 30, 2010,  HAMO had the unique opportunity to attend theColloquium on Diaper Rights, Health, Hygiene, and Public Policy, sponsored by The Diaper BankYale Law School, and the law firmWiggin and Dana, LLP.

The working session was really the first of it’s kind, bringing together state and federal government officials, members of several professions (lawyers, doctors, public health, social workers), public relations and industry representatives, academics, as well as advocates from various organizations dedicated to issues concerning women, children, and families.

Organizations represented at the colloquium include the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation (check out their post here), the Annie E. Casey Foundation, the Children’s Defense FundPrevent Child Abuse America, the National Center for Law and Economic JusticeNational Center for Children in PovertySEIUYale School of Public HealthYale Law SchoolThe Diaper Bank of Southern Arizona,Westside Baby, et. al

As you can see from this partial list, HAMO was, by far, the rookie organization of the group. I spent the entire day pretending I was a law student, soaking up information from the incredible discussions.

We started off talking about about the safety net, welfare, well being, and rights. Later, childhood poverty, women’s rights, and public health. We talked about transforming public policy and how crucial collaboration is across disciplines and organizations. We talked about grassroots advocacy, building a support network. During the panel I served on we talked about ways we could engage the public through both new and traditional forms of media Yes, Twitter was discussed. Along with Facebook. And Ashton Kutcher. We ended the day with a discussion on how we can work together to legislate change to include diapers  in the safety net.

My big take away from the day was this: Addressing the immediate crisis and raising awareness is crucial. Working to change the policy is equally important and will require a unified effort not only across state lines but also across digital ones.  If we can do this, we’ll increase opportunities not only for the women, children, and families, but also for our communities.

We want to hear from you. From where you stand, what do you think it is going to take to change the public policy?

The Great Womancession

Help me Obi-Wan Konebi , it’s the Great Womancession.

The other day I was talking to a social worker about her clients and workload. What’s she’s seeing is a huge influx of female-headed households having the reach out for help, many for the first time in their lives. Maybe they were renting from a landlord that, oops, forgot to tell them the house was in foreclosure. Maybe they’ve been laid off from their job, unemployment benefits ending, and having to file for cash assistance for the first time.

We hear these stories anecdotally. Of women and children going on welfare for the first time. Applying for food stamps for the first time. Of becoming homeless for the first time. Of being unable to meet the family’s basic needs for the first time.

But what does it mean on the large scale?

The California Budget Project recently came out with a series of white papers detailing the effects of the Great Recession and budget crisis on women and families.These briefings solidify the anecdotes that we’ve been hearing on the ground during this past year.

According to this briefing, in March, 2010, 2.7 million fewer U.S. women held jobs than in December, 2007 (which marks the beginning of the economic downturn). The jobless rate for women has reached a 30 year high. The unemployment rate for California women is the highest in a generation.

For California women, the impact on the Governor’s proposed state budget cuts could likely have adire effect on women and children – not only if CalWORKS is eliminated, but also if cuts to IHSS (in home care assistance program for seniors and disabled) and Medi-Cal go through.

What I think about when I read these briefings are the women and children I’ve heard about from our partner agencies. I think about the single moms who were employed but still scraping by during boom times. Now they are unemployed and seeking assistance for the first time in their lives. I think about the purpose of the safety net, and how it is especially needed in this Great Womancession.

WE CAN take action today with a simple step:

If you are a California resident, contact your state legislator to voice your concern of the state’s most vulnerable – women and children.

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Redux: California Budget Crisis Slams Women & Children

Here we are again, nearly one year later singing the same tune.  When things get tough, the tough throw women and children overboard?

Last Friday, Governor Schwarzenegger proposed to end the state’s welfare program CalWORKS(again) as well as most of the state-subsidized childcare programs. According to the Western Center on Law and Poverty, the Governor’s proposed budget would “decimate” the state’s safety net for poor families, whose population has grown exponentially since the Great Recession.

According to the Los Angelese Times, nearly 1 million children would loose access to the safety net with the administration’s proposed budget.

Take Action:

Contact your California legislator to voice your concern over the Governor’s proposed budget to eliminate the state’s safety net programs for the poor.

Guest Blogging Today at California NOW

This is a cross post from on California NOW’s blog. Thank you to the California Chapter of NOW for allowing us to speak to your readers!

Did you know that at some shelters, the #1 need is not food or clothing– but diapers? Did you know that diapers are not covered under public assistance programs, such as SNAP(food stamps) or WIC? As a result many mothers are forced to choose between affording diapers and other basic human needs: food, shelter, even medicine. It is heartbreaking to learn that many mothers are forced to keep their children in the same diaper for extended periods of time, which can lead to severe diaper rash and other major health problems such as staph and urinary tract infections.

In addition to the health risks associated with a lack of diapers, the impact of a low income family can mean the difference between attending school or being gainfully employed since the majority of childcare centers require parents to provide disposable diapers.

Enter Help a Mother Out (HAMO), a California based a grassroots advocacy and direct action campaign dedicated to improving the lives of mothers, children, and families in need one diaper at a time. HAMO started in spring, 2009 by two San Francisco Bay Area moms, Lisa Truong and Rachel Fudge, after learning about needy mothers having to choose between diapers or food. With an initial investment of just $100, and primarily utilizing online tools such as Facebook and Twitter, the group has collected more than 175,000 diapers and mainly distributed them through a variety of California agencies.

“Diapers are a must-have. You can’t skip them like you can breakfast,” explained one struggling mother in Oakland,California. “Getting donated diapers has helped me because I don’t have to have my child do without other things, such as food.”

Diapers are expensive — costing up to 20 to 40 cents each. What’s more, many low-income families don’t have access to discount stores, such as Target and Costco, and end up buying diapers at corner stores, where diapers are generally more expensive.

Take Action NOW:

By doing something as basic as donating a package of diapers, you are making a direct impact in the lives of women and children who would otherwise go without this basic need.

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Remember, we need you to donate – every little bit helps!

Happy Bottoms in Kansas City, MO

This is a guest post from one of our new friends, Jill, from HappyBottoms.org.  Please be sure to leave a comment for Jill and congratulate her on starting this program in Kansas City!

Hey! We’re sponsoring a local KS area event with Jill and Happy Bottoms! If you’re local, join Jill on May 2nd for a Moms Night Out event. If you are local, RSVP today!


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A year ago, I knew nothing about the need for diapers.  Frankly, I’m still learning about the true need and how it affects individuals on a daily basis.  Being very fortunate myself in life it is often times hard to wrap my head around.  For the past 15 years I’ve always wanted to “help out” in some way….you know “give back” because I have been fortunate and lucky.  As I would approach things or start to investigate volunteer opportunities here and there I would become overwhelmed and always had that nagging feeling that this particular thing isn’t going to “really” make a difference.  Realistically I do know that every little bit helps, no matter how small.  This was just an excuse to put it off a little longer.  Frankly it was fear.  Fear is our worst enemy.  It holds us back from trying new things, from living, from taking those leaps that make life more exciting.

About 6 months ago I got an email “why don’t you throw some energy at a diaper drive for me. Check out HelpAMotherOut.org”.  This came from a friend of mine who runs a non-profit called Give What You Got that supports kids in the foster care system.  Diaper Drive – this struck a chord.  I checked out HAMO and WOW!  Loved it!

I was hooked.  Forget diaper drive, let’s make this a diaper program modeled on others around the country.  I immediately began emailing HAMO, Southern Diaper Bank of Arizona and others to beg, borrow and steal materials to start our own Diaper program right here in Kansas City, Missouri.

Our first drive was last November.  7000 Diaper in 7 Days and we raised over 14,000 Diapers thanks to 7 children’s stores spreading the word and collecting diapers.  We are currently holding a drive to raise awareness for National Child Abuse Prevention Month Did you know you can relate child abuse to Diapers?  Babies in wet/soiled diapers to long tend to be crying babies, crying babies are more likely to be abused by an already stressed out caregiver. We hope to have 50 people each raise 1000 diapers in April.  That’s 50 people, 50,000 Daipers!

We have had a 13 year old girl raise 3000 Diapers for her bat mitzvah.  A mom sent out an email about our diaper program and that she wanted to come home to a full doorstep of diapers every night that week.  It worked! Several school districts competed to raise the most diapers.  One company hosts an annual quiz contest and this year’s cost of entry?  A package of diapers.  One dad, who is a cyclist, challenged other racers to bring diapers to a particular race.  If a team besides his raised more diapers, he would race in a diaper!  Luckily his team won. J  Excited to see what’s next!

Want to challenge yourself? Step outside of your comfort zone and host a diaper drive!  Learn a little something new not only about this cause, but about yourself.